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Discover sleep strategies for Autistic, PDA and ADHD children

That Actually Work

Specialist online sleep support so neurodivergent children and teens can finally get more sleep, across the UK.

Ready to reclaim your evenings?

Michelle Cyril - One of the UK leading sleep specialists
for neurodivergent children and young people

You are not getting it wrong. Your child’s brain is simply wired differently, and they need sleep support that recognises that, so you can get your evening back and mornings become less of a challenge.

Meet Michelle Cyril, an Advanced Paediatric Sleep Specialist, children’s nurse, and one of the UK’s leading sleep specialists for neurodivergent children and teens.

Michelle combines her lived experience of parenting two neurodivergent children with evidence-based sleep support, guided by neuro-affirming principles, to help autistic, PDA and ADHD children and young people get more sleep.

Are Sleep Struggles Taking Over Family Life?

When your neurodivergent child isn’t sleeping, it can leave the whole family exhausted, overwhelmed, on edge, and feeling alone. Maybe bedtime has become a battle, with challenging behaviour and an inability to fall asleep at a reasonable time. Or perhaps your child needs you beside them every single night – and the moment you try to leave, they wake up and end up in your bed. All of this can make getting them up for school in the morning feel almost impossible. Leaving your family feeling stretched beyond it’s limits.

It is exhausting – it can feel like running a marathon you never signed up for, right?

You might:

Find yourself shouting

Because your child cannot wake up for school and you are already panicking about being late.

Get frustrated at bedtime

When your child has endless delaying tactics at bedtime and you are drained and out of ideas.

Fall asleep in your child’s bed

Because you know they will need you in the night and it feels easier to stay there.

Argue with your partner

Because you have not spent an evening together, or woken up in the same bed, for months or even years.

You do not have to figure this out on your own. Let’s do it together.

I am here to stop the guesswork and to get you and your partner on the same page. I understand your neurodivergent child, and will support you with practical, evidence-based sleep strategies, delivered using a neuro-affirming approach. 

Ready to get started?

When your child sleeps better, everything feels a bit easier

When your neurodivergent child is able to fall asleep more quickly, sleep for longer stretches or stop starting their day at 4am, they will:

And for you…

Sleep support services
for neurodivergent families

Sleep support services for neurodivergent families

Ways to work with Michelle

Whether you are looking for one-to-one sleep support or a group programme, there are different ways we can work together to support your Autistic, PDA or ADHD child’s sleep.

All options use evidence-based practice, guided by neuro-affirming principles, and start with understanding your child’s sensory needs, emotional regulation and what helps them feel safe at bedtime and in the night.

1:1 Online Sleep Support

Most popular option – flexible and accessible wherever you are in the UK (or beyond).

£950*

Includes £100 discount when paid in full / 4 month payment plans are available

Work with me online over at least two months to transform tricky bedtimes and nights into calmer, more predictable evenings. Together will create an easy to follow sleep plan tailored for your neurodivergent child that fits their Autistic, ADHD or PDA profile and your family life.

*50% discount for siblings – if you have multiple children with different sleep needs, sibling sleep packages are available. Book a free call to chat about your whole family’s sleep. 

Find out more about my 1:1 Online Sleep Support

After 8 weeks working with Michelle, our daughter had a friend over for a sleepover - the first one she had ever done. We would highly recommend Michelle - we achieved more in 8 weeks than years with other support. Thanks Michelle

Home Visit Sleep Support

VIP support with an in-person visit from Michelle.

£1550*

Includes £100 discount when paid in full / 4 month payment plans are available

For families who would value an in-person visit, this VIP option includes a home visit so I can meet your neurodivergent child (if they want to), see where they sleep, and create a highly tailored sleep plan that feels realistic and works for your whole family.

Find out more about Home Visit Sleep Support

*50% discount for siblings – if you have multiple children with different sleep needs, sibling sleep packages are available. Book a free call to chat about your whole family’s sleep. 

Bedtime was taking 2-4 hours every single night. Within just a week we could see improvements. Beyond grateful to Michelle, she is definitely the person you need if you are struggling.

Neurodivergent Sleep Solutions

– 6 Week Online Group Programme

Coming back in 2027 – join the waitlist now.

A small, supportive group programme for parents and carers of Autistic, PDA and ADHD children who want to understand how to help their neurodivergent child fall asleep more easily, stop waking in the night and ultimately get more sleep.  I will support you to make practical changes over six weeks. 

The group programme includes two online live sessions in the evenings every Tuesday and Thursday for 6 weeks. Replays of every live session will be available.

6 Week Group program - Neurodivergent sleep solutions

Hi, I am Michelle

Experienced sleep consultant, children’s nurse and mum of two neurodivergent children who knows first-hand how exhausting and lonely sleep struggles can feel.

Bedtime had become tense and unpredictable. Baths and showers were being refused, and brushing teeth felt like a nightly battle. I felt like I was treading on egg shells, trying to prevent a meltdown, while bedtime crept later and later.

I knew what the textbooks said about bedtime routines and children’s sleep, but my own neurodivergent children – with their Autistic and PDA profiles, sensory needs and ADHD brains – the “standard” sleep advice wasn’t working. I reached a point where I felt completely out of answers and utterly worn down.

Everything changed when I reached out for specialist support from a neurodiversity consultant who truly understood how my children’s brains worked. That was the missing piece. 

By combining my expert knowledge of sleep with a neuro-affirming approach, I was able to let go of what I thought bedtime “should” be like and finally discovered strategies that actually worked. Bedtime became calmer, easier and far less stressful for us all.

That experience is what led me to specialise in sleep support for neurodivergent children and teens.

Today, I bring together my nearly 30 years as a children’s nurse with advanced paediatric sleep training and my own lived experience as a parent of two neurodivergent children.

My work is rooted in evidence-based practice, enriched by neuro-affirming principles, so that Autistic, PDA and ADHD children can feel safer and get more sleep at night – and parents can finally breathe, knowing they have the right support and they don’t have to do this on their own anymore.

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FAQs

No. Many families I support are on a waiting list for assessment or strongly suspect their child is neurodivergent. If you recognise your child in what you have read about Autistic, PDA or ADHD sleep struggles – long and drawn out bedtimes, frequent night waking, early morning starts – you are welcome here. You do not need a formal diagnosis to get evidence-based, neuro-affirming sleep support.

“Neuro-affirming” means I aim to work with your child’s neurodivergent brain, not against it. I will not ask you to use “one size fits all” sleep advice for neuro-typical children or to ignore your child’s distress. Instead, I will create practical, easy-to-follow sleep strategies that respect Autistic, PDA and ADHD profiles so they feel safe and supported throughout.

Yes. Most of my work is online with families all over the UK. I have also worked with families in the USA, and other countries, looking for neuro-affirming support with sleep. I am happy to offer online sleep support wherever it is required. All you need is a device for video calls. Home visits are subject to availability and limited to the UK.

Michelle Cyril

Qualified Sleep Specialist

Helping exhausted parents of neurodivergent children and teens find real sleep solutions that work for the whole family, with expertise and support every step of the way.

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Discover five ways to help your autistic or ADHD child switch off their busy brain at bedtime.